Okay so where do I start? So sorry this is going to be long but I really appreciate any advice. Before me and my husband got married he was really honest with me that his dad had cheated on his mom and went to jail for punching his brother and had a stint with alcohol and drugs. I thought I was prepared coming into a pretty dysfunctional family. But right after Christmas we found out a whole new slew of things that I am not comfortable with. I guess his dad is an exhibitionist who has been to jail and rehab for it before. He has tried sexual advances with two of the sister in laws and now looking back knowing what I know now has tried stuff with me. His mom has known about this since before the divorce (10 years now). I am pissed at the whole situation and how stupid his family is. Why were none of the sister in laws warned about their father in law. Why didn't his mom come to us and tell us to be careful around him. Why didn't the sister in laws who had experiences with him tell us not to have him stay at our house (which he did) or tell us to not spend the night at his house. Also why are they letting their young daughters to stay at his house and sit on his lap and whatnot. I am just disgusted. Also my sister in law keeps calling my husband and talking for hours and in my opinion being completely inappropriate. The worst part of it all is that as much as I try to separate the situation from my husband I can't. I feel distant and disconnected to him. I don't want to be intimate I don't know what traits he might have got from his father. I am embarrassed to admit but I have seriously thought of leaving him. I don't want any of this around my sweet babies and I don't want to be around it. I don't want the drama, I don't want to explain why my kids can't be alone with grandpa, and I don't want to risk the fact that my husband might have some traits of his father. I don't know what to do!!! I just want to quit but I know I shouldn't. What would you do?? Anything would help I have no one else to vent to!!