Do you struggle to discipline your special-needs child? You are not alone. I have confided with many parents of special needs children and know that they are torn between allowing their children to grow into little tyrants and disciplining them to help them fit into a civilized society. Both choices are heart-rending. On one hand, you want your special needs child to grow into a responsible adult.But on the other hand, you are emphatic to his or her needs. So, moms with special needs children, how do you go about it? Here is my take on this issue: